Women line outside a Phnom Penh karaoke bar where sex is
sold. There are many such establishments on the road to Svay Pak, on the
outskirts of the Cambodian capital.
Phnom Penh, Cambodia (CNN) -- Late one night, after
dark, we met up with Don Brewster -- head of Agape International Missions, an
NGO fighting child prostitution -- to go behind the scenes at Cambodia's KTVs:
karaoke clubs that are fronts for brothels.
I threw on some jeans and tried to look like a tourist who
was up for a kinky kind of tour, with my ersatz "boyfriend"-- our
cameraman, Scott....
Don drove us first to an out of the way small side street,
where there were tiny KTVs operating out in the open like cheap brothels. Girls
sat on plastic chairs lining the entrance, all painted up and wearing short
skirts, high heels and fake smiles. We walked past a few, stopping to talk for
a little while. The girls would stand up, becoming energized and engaged. We
crossed the street and approached another one, as if we were sampling the wares
at each one.
We walk into a KTV; Scott and Don lead the way into the
karaoke rooms. I become less nervous as we walk to the back where an overweight
young woman frantically sweeps the kitchen floor, and we are pointed up some
cement and metal stairs. We pass hallways full of closed doors, in which I can
only imagine the sex acts occur.
We are brought into a low ceilinged, dank room with some
disgusting couches and a video screen on one wall. I am overwhelmed with the
saturated smell of air freshener that apparently has gone off like an insect
fogger in this room -- to cover what odor, who knows. I nearly gag and we beat
a quick path out of there. We hop back into the car and head off.
Next stop: a famous 5-storied fortress of a KTV with armed
guards outside. Don says if we take the elevator up from the basement, we can
skip the bar and go straight to the "massage" floor.
On the fifth floor we are immediately led to a giant
windowed "fishbowl" where at least 20 girls sit on bleacher to be
observed and picked. Scott walks in front of the pane; they respond to his
macho energy, rising and preening.
I have my iPhone in hand and itching to take a picture when
suddenly things go horribly sideways: A white-clad girl in the bowl suddenly
jumps up and starts screaming "She take a picture!!" She runs into
the lobby and a grim-faced Mama-san bustles up to us. The girl crowds us and
accuses me; more people start to gather. My friends advise me to erase the
picture -- but I haven't taken any! I try and stand my ground and keep saying,
"I didn't take a picture." But I am becoming very nervous and the
situation is getting ugly.
We hustle back onto the elevator. We were lucky to get out
of there without running into the security guys, because there could have been
real trouble. But their behavior absolutely cemented the fact that something
illegal, beyond legal-aged prostitution is going on there. They were acting
like they had far too much to lose.
We head to another KTV, this one still upscale but less
fortress-like than the last. Paintings of the cosmos line the ceiling in the
lobby. We were ushered in and led us upstairs to karaoke room where hostesses
in satin, beaded formal dresses greet us. The large and comfortable room had a
giant screen on one wall and couches lining the other three walls. Colored
lights pulse and change on the walls.
An older woman walked in five girls dressed in fairly classy
though sexy business suits, for us to take our pick of whom we would like to
stay with us. Scott, fully playing the part, roars out in his New Zealand
accent, "You have anything younger, fresher?!" The girls scurry out
in a hurry.
Then more girls enter. These definitely seem younger. They
are also more provocatively dressed; they are wearing very short little black
dresses. Don picks one, and so does Scott and the two join us; the karaoke
starts in earnest. I must sing with gusto to justify my presence, otherwise
what is this white lady doing here?
We sit there and begin to get their life stories. The young
girl sitting next to me, the one Scott chose, is extremely pretty. It is
impossible to tell how old she is -- she claims to be 21, I would believe it if
she was 14. She says she doesn't come from Phnom Penh, and she is working here
because her family is very poor and needs the money. Her family doesn't know
what kind of work she is doing, she said. If they find out, they will be angry
with her. She has a very pretty smile, but there are moments when I watch her
where the smile disappears, and she looks very sad.
She chooses to sing a song from the Karaoke catalog, a
popular dance hit in Khmer, which has a video of a singer performing in front
of what looks to be an American style high school dance, again like a prom. I
am told the song is called "Only One Virginity" (!) and it talks
about how a girl is like a flower, and only has the one time where she has most
value.
Our young acquaintance sings her heart out, very intently
performing if not always tunefully. Afterwards she tells me that she very
specifically picked this one out, and that she wishes that she will meet a man
that will go to her parents and ask for her hand, respect her. I try to get her
to talk about what men expect from her here, but it doesn't go very far.
I see that Don has been very busy with the girl he invited
to stay, showing her a video on his iPhone in which a girl from his center
talks about how she was able to leave a KTV and now has a job that she is
excited about and is much happier. She was very intrigued by the video and she
gave him her cellphone number so the girl from the video could call her and
follow up.
I passed his iPhone to our young companion. Thankfully, the
hostesses did not seem to mind or care that we were doing this; the whole room
was on security cameras poised in the corners but no one came in and stopped
us. She watched and listened to the video very intently. Afterwards she said
she liked it.
"I know it is hard to trust us, strangers," I told
her. "But I am a mom (and I showed her pictures of my four happy children
and me hugging my two daughters) and I wouldn't want my kids in a situation
like this."
She didn't give her number, but we told her it was okay,
Don's outreach person would call her friend and we gave her Don's card. I
impressed on her that this was opportunity knocking on her door, and she should
answer it: this was her chance for a happier life.
We hugged goodbye, and went back to the cars. I had no idea
that I was going to be involved in trying to recruit girls to leave the KTV
life and receive the services of Don's NGO. What a night.
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